Let’s say that you – a normal guy, and significant problems with you not there. You’re fairly confident, not ugly (but not smazliv), has a sense of humor and intelligence … You have enough to adhere to universal guidelines that should not be interpreted as a dogma. Be natural and adequate to the girl, but with only one proviso: we’ll have to put it a little dust in his eyes and bit of spice to its image. Perhaps the only thing that will make a good impression about yourself.

The fact that many women love to talk (no matter what) – commonly known fact. However, during the first minutes of dating should not be abused. Do not talk about trifles, but at the same time do not show all his wit and erudition. Speak confidently, without stammering and intelligibly. Would be nice if you yourself will create a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere of communication. You can not hide from it its sense of humor, periodically inserting into the conversation funny jokes (they should not be trite and banal). Do not forget the compliments it receives. Necessary to establish a dialogue between you, when both are interested listen and virtually no interrupt each other. Well together to discuss any subject or object from the outside world, for example, won the woman at the bar, very similar to Marilyn Monroe …

Suddenly turns so that your companion reads body language. Therefore, it is not enough to speak to the topic, nice and in moderation. The main thing that your words with deeds. If on the first date you hang out and pozitsioniruesh himself as a gentleman, a Give and a caring hand in every appropriate case. Moreover, your gestures and all non-verbal body movements must comply with the activities of your speech apparatus to complete a positive image: a hand along the entire length should be confident tense (only brush gently grabs her wrist), and eyes looking at her, and not to the high soaring jet aircraft.

Do not try to show her sensual and vulnerable. After all, strong and tough men always have been, are and will be for women in fashion. It is an axiom. Just do not be rude and very cool: smile when you want and try to seem chivalrous.

Too intrusive in their intentions to be too highly contraindicated. Pay attention to what she likes, dislikes and listening to her, read her non-verbal cues and the composition of her painting. Try to match her preferences, anticipating her thoughts and act properly. But do not lose the image of masculine macho rough-and-hold brand of sexuality, in order not to seem ladies man, henpecked and doormat. Often, compliance with these recommendations, coupled with constant courtship signals makes her “feel like a real woman in your community. You look, and she will think that you – actually the one who she wants …

However, if you’re selfish, cynical, curmudgeon, boring, etc., in general, a bad man, and you managed to disguise it and present yourself with the best hand, you can recognize this local victory. But the euphoria there should not be – it is only one step climb to the top of harmonious personal relations. Next, your negative qualities will sooner or later will come out, maybe at the most inopportune moment, and you’re head over heels rolled down (if only the girl in that time did not fall in love with you “to the ears”). There is already a lot will depend on yourself, your ability to change for the better, to grow as a person. If you are really interested in a girl and expect from it is not just otvyaznyh sex, then you should seriously think about it. We are not talking about drastic revaluation of all around. Maybe your world will undergo some metamorphosis, and you can in most cases contain a demonstration of their brutal nature. You and your companion to do so would only benefit. If the evil has taken possession of you so deeply, and negative elements are not eradicated, it is indeed a problem. In this case, the relationship with the girls you very contraindicated, in order not to hurt her and her soul. It remains only to sympathize with …

Who said that a girl can be a friend? And who said that if one – then this is the cross? That’s right – if the girl says the phrase “we’ll be friends,” then it stops your hopes for rapprochement in the intimate sphere. But as time goes on, and you may find that months pass, and all her boys away, and thou shalt be closest to her man. And the girl that deny you in the intimacy of a year ago when you were a stranger to her boyfriend, she is gradually going to meet you, you’re closer to it all the others, she believes in you.

By the way, dropping out is very good – if you do not need, then you really will not become her friend, and she will avoid disappointment in the loved one. Yes and you have a good screening – you can find it much better and closer, and if it does not suit you – to disperse peacefully without causing each other pain. By the way, the friendship with the girl is very helpful – never and nowhere can not you learn so much. This is verified by me. If you’re ready for it, try and try for yourself.

And if you tried to MFIs? How long have you cared for the popular with you girl?

Generally, I see that the term “courtship” is outdated. His youth almost never used. And even the very good reason – there is practically no such girl who would have been unpleasant signs of attention, a sign that you care about it. The trouble is that “courtship” is used mostly kid, usually ranging from middle school, but it differs from serious adult relationship is like sex to masturbation through spout. Often such “pioneer courtship” call girl unpleasant emotions and the desire to avoid this in the future.

But it is only up to 20-23 years, then all completely different! In the girl wakes up a woman who is very nice to feel wanted and attractive, which favors to deliver joy. At this age, a girl wants to feel confident in your guy, and it was his constant, unobtrusive, almost imperceptible, but it creates a sweet courtship of a young woman a sense of joy, a feeling that she needed her love. What a guy, so showing your attention to it, is serious and he can be trusted.